Periodization and Transition Phases

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“The dream you are living is your creation. It is your perception of reality that you can change at any time. You have the power to create hell, and you have the power to create heaven. Why not dream a different dream? What not use your mind, your imagination, and your emotions to dream heaven?” –

Don Miguel Ruiz, The Four Agreements, Love More, Fear Less

Chris Oemler recently shared this quote in one of her classes at the Leesburg studio. I often think of life in terms of training periodization cycles – here’s a very simple picture to visualize how training periodization works (simply put, purposeful waves). There are cycles of grinding and maxing out, testing your limits – but to grow and optimally perform, these challenging times must be followed my rest, relaxation, and recovery.

In yoga, sports and life this occurs on macros and micro levels – the “micro” rest at the end of each yoga practice or the “down” periods (transition phases) in life (like having a nice Memorial Day week vacation!). These take the form of rest and reflection, allowing one to process absorbed knowledge and experiences, realize what you’ve even accomplished, and take a moment to learn from the past. If you push too far without this rest, hard work and training will be wasted; you risk injuring yourself, you burn out, and you simply become over-trained, not yourself and no longer engaged and benefiting from the process and practice.

Of course, no surprise…like many of us do, I approached last week with ambitious intentions – the business plans I would write, the personal projects I’d complete, etc. Yet, the moment I finished those final exams and completed the long trek home…all I could do was sleep (and eat). Like myself, many of us are unaware how exhausted we’ve become.

Three years ago, when I was forced to do nothing but think while recovering from my hip surgeries due to over-use injuries (something I never paused and stopped to do), I promised myself that I would intentionally plan time for this in the future. As stated earlier, this rest is essential for growing or else you burn out, or get sick, off-track, etc. and eventually are forced to stop.

Often our greatest ideas, insights and intuitions come after we’ve taken a break – whether that’s meditation, a step away from the office, a walk, or vacation. Like a taper from training, at first, we feel ‘off’ or may question if we’ve even put in our best work…especially if we are letting ourselves rest. Was ‘my best’ good enough? Could I have done better? Will it pay off in the end? In sports and life, there’s uncertainty between the point of hard work behind us and not seeing results. However, along the way you trusted in this process, so shouldn’t you believe in the outcome?

In sports periodization, after a week’s rest, our bodies hit a point where rest kicks in and our body can perform optimally. The accumulation of learning, work, and training experiences…and we realize “we still got this”…we’re on the right track. This “performance test” extends beyond a sport competition but comes in many forms – often life’s challenges, ideas or direction for what’s next.

In training and in life, it’s hard to stay in your own lane, or even your own mat. We all have different goals – but we often get wrapped up in what is going on around us. There’s a balance to be found between surrounding ourselves with people who challenge and support us with while also maintaining focus of our own training strategy.

Ruiz also wrote, “Imagine living your life without being afraid to take a risk and to explore life. You are not afraid to lose anything. You are not afraid to be alive in the world.”

It’s only after these tests you realize it was irrational to have ever worried or questioned yourself. This emotion of uncertainty or fear is purposeful – because without out any sort of discomfort, we would casually go about life, perhaps not attentive, without anticipation, never feeling the extremes, no satisfaction or appreciation.

“Imagine living your life without fear of expressing your dreams,” Ruiz writes. “You know what you want, what you don’t want, and when you want it. You are free to change your life the way you really want to. You are not afraid to ask for what you need, to say yes or no to anything or anyone.”

The following of a challenge or test of performance is an essential time to redirect our focus and make changes to the next cycle according to what’s working and what’s not working (and also what you may want to try experimenting). Whether you are approaching summer, a new job, the end of a school year, or any transition phase – it’s a great time to refocus and align with our goals. Remembering to rest, dreaming the life we want to live, following what we love, acting in alignment with our long-term goals, serving other’s, and fearing less.

 — Amanda Presgraves

Amanda is a recent business graduate from Wake Forest University with her B.S. in Exercise Science from James Madison University. As Division I collegiate swimmer, life-long athlete, and entrepreneur – Amanda is an advocate of health and personal growth, on a constant pursuit to optimize life and inspire others through her commitment to healthy living. If you can’t find Amanda bouncing between projects, the gym, kitchen, her mat, or volunteering, you can find her online as she continues to lead and motivate others towards a happier and improved life through article contributions, newsletters and community motivation. (@amandapgraves, linkedin).

Self-Improvement in All Areas of Life

Self-Improvement in All Areas of Life

“Those who succeed most pay the most attention to self-improvement in all areas of life”
– Bret Contreras

Did you catch that?

All areas of life.

Not just at the gym, or in the kitchen or at your desk… every single aspect.

The good thing is, exercise plays an important role in achieving this balance. The idea may sound counterintuitive – how could adding more to your already busy day help to alleviate stress and allow you to put more energy into other aspects of life? Exercise is a way to psychologically detach from work, while also reaping the physiological benefits! Movin’ and grovin’ boosts our happy chemicals leaving, us feeling invincible and ready to take on the world. This explains why many jobs encourage their workers to get exercise and stay active in the office. When you check back in, you will actually be a more productive and efficient employee! I say that is a win-win for everyone. Use a little activity to sprout that motivation to grow your abilities in a new area. Your potential doesn’t cap off at your job or in your sport. Keep improving yourself and the results carry over to every aspect of your life – family, running splits, stress levels…the possibilities for a better you are endless!

What can you do today to make you better tomorrow? 

The Power of Art: The Fun and Cutting Edge Secret to Accomplish Your Fitness Goal

The Fun and Cutting Edge Secret to Accomplish Your Fitness Goal

“The key ingredient for success in life is the discipline of mind and body. Setting goals and making sure they are accomplished builds discipline. Whatever goal I set for myself, I will first get a mental image in my mind of exactly what it is I want to achieve, then I will be determined and persistent enough to overcome all obstacles that get in my way toward that goal. Finally, I will train or study accordingly until that goal [fitness goal] is accomplished.”  – Chuck Norris

Goal setting often falls short because of a lack of action.

In a world where living’s evolved into a constant stream of to-do list tasks, goals, and “if-only’s” – we are expected to prioritize our time, handle information, maintain focus, allocate resources, and constantly increase performance…and goals are the answer. How can we ditch the distractions and get things done? 

A fitness goal serves to fuel motivation and have been found to improve performance. A previously frowned upon and distracting activity has now emerged as the cutting edge of neuroscience and behavioral psychology.

The lack of action in fitness goal – setting is caused by a stall resulting from the constant data and stimulus overloading our brain and stealing our focus. BUT, when you draw a picture of what you desire…your chances of remembering it improve by 65%! Add in the body chemistry from imagining and drawing – a serotonin/oxytocin potion that guides your pattern-making brain into focus – and you have yourself a fitness goal – achieving master.

Even better – doodling requires no artistic talent (so don’t say you “can’t” draw!), expensive tools, training, or talent. The science-backed
key to scheduling in that workout, or simply knocking off a line on your to-do list is to physically write it out.

For so long, doodling has been criticized for its useless endeavor, but new research is supporting the clear, tangible effects on outcome and performance – particularly in the power of a tool for active visualization.

Mental imagery can have a very powerful effect on behavior, research found that participants who visualized a task before completing it performed better than those who had actually practiced it. At the deepest levels of the mind, the brain and central nervous system can’t actually distinguish between something vividly imagined and an actual occurrence. We see this utilized in professional athletes and sports settings such as with Michael Phelps who’s well known for applying visualization techniques to gain an edge over the competition and reach peak performance, in the process of healing injuries and managing symptoms, and for increasing actual muscle mass by simply visualizing an exercise routine.

“To doodle is to engage in an intellectual, creative, and physical act that recruits many neurological networks simultaneously. This makes it a strong force for chance and portal for imagining and inviting preferred realities” Sunni Brown, The Doodle Revolution

Not only does imagery create a motivating vision which allows us to take the necessary steps to fulfill it, but it changes the information processing in our brain at the earliest levels. As humans we tend to revise the same neurological pathways we know and get stuck in our comfort zones. Next week we’ll share the multiple and unexpected ways doodling serves as the fitness goal game-changer, allowing us to enhance what’s possible.

Lift – Are You Mentally Ready?

Lift – Are You Mentally Ready?

“It does not matter how much weight it is to lift. If I’m ready mentally for it – then I’m ready” – Arnold Schwarzenegger

Sure is motivating when Arnold Schwarzenegger (bulging out of the very shirt he is trying to sell) is convincingly screaming – “YOU CAN DO IT TOO!”

That you too can be strong. That you can be fit.

Who better to follow than the swole-master himself?

However, don’t let this “movement” give you the idea that if you aren’t a body builder then you aren’t doing it right. You don’t need to be tan, defined, and aesthetically perfect to be obtaining the benefits of exercise. Certainly don’t let it be the definition of your success either.

The benefits of lifting extend far beyond increased muscle mass and an unrealistic bicep circumference – increasing mood and bone density, lowering your risk of diabetes, depression and heart disease, and overall improving your quality of life!

At COR we actively support the movement of fitness for everyone – starters, experts, big or small.

So come with us if you want to be lift. DO IT! Because, we too are trying to make the world healthy – concentrating on fitness for everyone.

Strength training also plays a key part in something new we are bringing to you. We have another little trick up our sleeve with a program we’re introducing – hiking …and we can’t wait to share with you next week.

What are your thoughts? Is lifting moving you toward motion or away from the gym?

Reach New Heights of Success – Half Dome Hiking

Reach New Heights of Success – Half Dome Hiking

“There are no secrets to success. It is the result of preparation, hard work, and learning from failure.” Colin Powell

Following a daily routine is comforting, creates stability, and provides us with predicability to accomplish daily success. It also means we are missing out on an opportunity to step outside of our comfort zone – where we experience growth and meaning.

Growth is about pursuing new opportunities that stretch us beyond our comfort zone. It’s about venturing boldly into the unknown. Defaulting to what is comfortable often leads to missing out on a greater contribution and experience. Sure, there is always a risk of failure. However, unless we assume that risk there will also never be that chance of success either.

Small risks are glorious, and while unsettling at first, you leave rewarded and open to amazing new life experiences.

COR is introducing you to something a bit off the map…switchin’ up the same ol’ routine. Our newest program and ultimate challenger – the 90 day Half Dome Hike. From competitive athletes to weekend warriors – as with any physical activity, preparation is critical to avoid injury, maintain adherence and minimize safety risks. Day to day workouts, packing preparation, health recommendations, dietary needs – we got you covered.

Here’s everything you need to know to get you started…for free – 90 Day Half Dome Hiking Guide

Not yet convinced you want to hit the trail? Let us help.

1.  The cognitive benefits have been tested for years now. Between the increased  exposure to nature, combined with the decrease in technology – hiking has been shown to enhance creative problem solving and improve a variety of other psychological indices. In addition, hiking induces positive affects of concentration, facilitates memory, increases your sense of accomplishment, and evokes a calming sensation.
2. Recent research has found how group walks in nature are associated with significantly less depression, perceived stress, and greater positive mental well-being. They concluded that hiking could be a potentially important contribution to “both public health and individual well being with benefits in mental health, coping with stress, and improved emotions”.
3. Hiking facilitates interaction with nature, social interaction when with friends and family, and promotes physical activity – all which support mental, emotional, and social wellbeing as well as mitigate the effects of stressful life events.
4. Physically, hiking does it all. Aerobic activity, strength from the hills, and balance on the rough terrain.
5. It’s free. The perfect activity for a large family, the frugal college student, or those lacking a of gym membership.

It’s time to knock Half Dome hike off the bucket list.

In 90 days we will help you reach new heights Create the confidence to conquer. Provide the preparation to prevail. Give you the coaching to crush the trails.

Free 90-Day Half Dome Hiking Guide

A College Student's Mentality to Exercising (that actually got people exercising)

A College Student's Mentality to Exercising

“Men ought to know that from the brain and from the brain only arise our pleasures, joys, laughter, and jests as well as our sorrows, pains, griefs and tears. … It is the same thing which makes us mad or delirious, inspires us with dread and fear, whether by night or by day, brings us sleeplessness, inopportune mistakes, aimless anxieties, absent-mindedness and acts that are contrary to habit…” – Hippocrates

How might we put children in situations where they come to value and enjoy being physically active?

The better question is, how is this different for adults? Is it?

Last week we touched on the importance of getting our children to work out ..and how – but as adults, are we any better?

When kids hit adolescence (12-19 y/o ) the percentage of kids meeting activity recommendations significantly drops to from 42% of kids to 8%!

8% in adolescence…do you think that miraculously improves once they became an adult with a career and kids and school and everything else happening?

“Only 3.5 percent of Americans between the ages of 18 and 59 do the minimum amount of physical activity recommended by the Department of Health and Human Services (150 minutes a week of moderate activity).

Take a guess…it must get better after 59?

Over age 60, the percentage is even lower…2.5 percent

Children who watch TV for 3+ hours a day have65% higher chance of being obese than children who watch for <1 hour. We give children a hard time for being attached to their screens, but ask yourself how many hours a day you are staring at your computer during work. I challenge you to track yourself this week. You’ll discover the results can be brutally alarming. 

It’s easy it is to sit back and kick in on the couch after a long day. Moving is exerting. As a recently retired collegiate athlete, I now have the option to set my schedule like the average college student.

So what did I do last week – I put this to the test.

Playing. 

Three college roommates took it upon themselves to conduct a personal experiment. Each evening would end as it would circa 2000. The activity varied by day – kickball in the street, biking, going to the park, rip-sticking (all for the sake of science, right?). They played outside after school under dark.

The Results: We need to change the focus of where we find pleasure in the experience. 

I had the honor of speaking and listening to one of the leading researchers in the topic of the exercising brain this week, Dr. Rod Dishman, to better understand the interaction between physiology and psychology.

With over 200 publications of research on the effects and interactions between the brain and exercise, he’s discovering support of exercise in more ways than we once realized – but what good does knowing these benefits do unless we can apply it to making changes in our health?

I had the chance to ask Dr. Dishman how we can take the ground breaking neuroscience of exercise and apply it to public health through motivation. His unique experience applying the science to behavior through motivation is game-changing.

We forgot how to ‘play’. 

‘Play’ get’s lost as we grow old – we forget the enjoyment in a game of kickball with our neighbors, or rollerblading on a nice spring afternoon.

“Exercise is like hitting our hand with a hammer, it feels good once you stop” – Dr. Dishman

What does it all come down to? Our experience. 

We need to figure out how we can change our perception and interpret “feeling good”….via the exercise experience we have and the enjoyment we take from it.

It’s our nature to seek beneficial experiences. Of course, we know there are many benefits to exercise – but we can’t feel our bone density increasing, BDNF releasing from our brain, new blood vessels forming, our blood lipid levels changing.

Let’s use one of the best examples in science – fatigue. Of course your first reaction when tired isn’t “Wow! I should go run…maybe I’ll have more energy!”…that’s nuts. Why would running GIVE you energy…it’s exerting.

The act of exerting ourselves seems counterintuitive. However, people who exercise regularly can attest to the differences in energy level and know when they feel sluggish, while it might be hard to get off the couch – it increases feelings of energy and decreases feelings of fatigue.

This is how we need to look at exercise.

We can notice adjustments in our sleep, our mental clarity, our behavior – these are obvious changes if we become mindful of them.

We must find ways to enjoy the experience and further find pleasure in the results – such as feeling good after a workout or improved productivity. As we become aware of these benefits, we will soon anticipate that pleasure and associate it with activity.

HOW:

“Broaden the menu” – Reintroduce ‘play’. Surround yourself with an energizing community through a fitness class. Associate activity with a ‘break’ not exertion. Take the dog on run, or the kids for a bike ride. Make activity your solution for a long day that leaves you ready for bed, clears your head, and maybe energizes your brain to get out that last email before you decide to call it a night…even more – see the long-term benefits. Play.

How are you finding ways to incorporate breaks of activity in your day? Do something this week to bring back play

One Easy (and free) Way to Take Your Workout to the Next Level

One Easy (and free) Way to Take Your Workout to the Next Level

“The key to long-term success is a willingness to disrupt your own comfort for the sake of continued growth” – Todd Henry

This workout video of T-Swift doesn’t only have us laughing but now I’m finally reassured we aren’t the only crazy ones taking drastic measures to get pumped up for our workouts.

If you “hate cardio”, can’t wake up…maybe soreness kicked in or you straight up aren’t feeling it today…thankfully many tools exist to launch us into a great mindset and enjoy a productive workout. You can have accountability of friends, family, and coaches, triggers, goals, races, etc…but our personal favorite…

Music

For over 100 years, starting when an American investigator found that cyclists pedaled faster when listening to some tunes, researchers have been discovering the power of music in leveraging our workouts, mood…and even diet ?!

We all have those days when the last things you want to do is that dreaded long run…but music can override our physiological feedback that we would otherwise be focusing on..as well as change our perception of effort.

Try to tell me it’s not easier to run 8 miles when you have Eminem bumping in your ear. 

One of the leading experts on the psychology of exercise music wrote that one could think of music as “a type of legal performance-enhancing drug” and that it has the ability to “promote ergogenic and psychological benefits during high-intensity exercise”. 

I guess Drake’s been reading up on the scientific journals as well…”[finding] his tempo like [he’s] DJ mustard” is really what got him here.

When healthy individuals performed sub maximal exercise, they not only worked harder with faster music but also enjoyed the music more when it was played at a faster tempo. This is suggested to be an evolutionary effect of our brain expecting that whenever there was music, there was movement.

Two other savvy uses of Music…

The singing/rapping/talking test:

How hard are you really working? Can you belt out Kelly Clarkson’s bone-shaking high notes or are you huffing-n-puffing trying to make it to the end of the HIT session? This is a great judge of our effort and a helpful tip for measuring relative intensity and keeping us in necessary workout efforts. If you’re doing a mod-int workout..I should expect you to be able to talk, maybe rap…but not sing. Vig-int? Anything more than a few words and you gotta step it up! (except we always encourage you to sing or dance at the end..(Go Elena!)

Music makes brussel sprouts taste good:

Okay well I actually like brussel sprouts..but for the picky eaters out there – this is game changing.

News fresh in the world of music research – the music you’re listening to could greatly influence your taste perception.

A recent study linked background music to the enjoyment of food and sweet taste perception.

What went down: Participants who were digging the music while eating something sweet (like chocolate ice cream) experienced a sweeter taste. BUT when they didn’t like music, that same chocolate ice cream was nasty and bitter.  You don’t need scientist to confirm music elicits positive emotions..but they did…and they found it correlates with our perception of sweetness.

Put it to the test: Next time your forcing down the veggies or serving the kids dinner – crank up your fav jams… see if your experience enhances the sweetness of “blander” foods. So long dessert!

What makes you what to wake up and grind? How can we help you set in motion a course of action that will allow you to unleash your best and most enjoyable workout?

3 Simple Ways to Never Work Again

3 Simple Ways to Never Work Again

“I find that the harder I work, the less I call it work” – Thomas Jefferson

The more energy you apply to your work, the more meaning you place on that work.

“Workaholics”get a bad rap, but research has found a large difference exists amongst types. Typically someone with an uncontrollable need to be constantly working ends up burnt out, stressed, dreading what they do, and sick. This study found the opposite for some folks.

What was the differentiating factor between workaholics?

Enthusiasm.

Jefferson was right – the harder one is working and caring about what they are doing, the more engaged they become, and the less they consider it work. “Work” becomes something they enjoy.  Involvement, drive and enjoyment were directly related to positive engagement and health as well as decreased stress and burnout.

“An acquired positive expectancy, therefore, is related to positive motivations and health. This theoretical stress framework suggests that if the enthusiastic “workaholics” are enthusiastic due to positive outcome expectancies we expect low stress levels, low reports of “job stress”, and good health.”

“If the nonenthusiastic “workaholics” have low enthusiasm due to low expectancies of success(helplessness, hopelessness), CATS predicts higher stress levels, more complaints of “job stress”, and health problems.”

Our expectation of our experience, and further the motivation to “get work done”, is nothing more than our semantics and neurology – it doesn’t have anything to do with what we are actually doing, other people, the situation – rather, it’s the meaning and value we place and our interpretation of it. The research found that if we expect a positive outcome, and therefore go into the work with increased enthusiasm for that result, we respond accordingly.

This directly applies to YOU and the effect of this Monday Motivation. Sure, I can move you to action with these weekly newsletters (a girl can dream, right?) – but how you stick with it is up to YOU. Have you stayed discipline in your pursuit to make this the most manic and mad March you’ve ever lived? Do you see value in your work and go after your day with enthusiasm? This newsletter may be the start – but the rest is on you to make it happen.

It’s about having enthusiasm and a positive outlook on your “work”.

“I have to go to work”

“I need to work out”

“This is hard word”

Why do our days revolve around “work” that we “need” to do? The negative connotation of the word “work” itself often entails an arduous task – something forced upon us that will be spent in misery.

There exists three simplistic ways to drastically change our perception of “work”:

– Find value

• Blur the line between work and life…and make your life a piece of work! Create it, be in control of it, and have ownership in the choice that you have to make it your own.

– Establish a routine

• Establish a routine and this whole “motivation” thing becomes irrelevant.

– No more excuses

• Lastly, cut the excuses. Just be done with that option.

If you’re taking part in the March Madness Mania (and if not, I’m sure you’ve experienced this on your own) – you are half way through our challenge and by now you’ve found that getting to your workout is second nature. You walk up to COR, check in at the desk, set your keys down in the cubby, start foam rolling…the rest is history. The need for motivation goes away when you make this part of your lifestyle – yet you maintain enthusiasm and drive to continue.

Something can motivate you to action but to sustain that purpose, YOU must find the value behind what you are doing.

What are you doing this week to turn your “need to work out” to “I can’t wait to work out”? What about your work – whether it be your exercise fix, your job, or chore – fuels you?

Improving Your Physical, Emotional, & Spiritual Health

Improving Your Physical, Emotional, & Spiritual Health

“We live in a world where the yellow brick road has many forks and can take us on many incredible journeys … But this is exciting news. It means we can choose the life we want for ourselves. You choose that life by doing the best you can right in this moment. Right now. By being bold in this moment. Right now. There is no other moment to wait for.” – Dick Costolo’s Foreword from James Altucher’s, Choose Yourself

When do we ever truly know the outcome?  We don’t. But we can choose right now to do the best we can and make the most of the moment.  You can choose to be bold. To ‘choose yourself’. James writes an entire book on how he turned his life around from a point of dark failure, depression and poverty by following 5 key principles.

1. Improve your physical health (focus on exercise and diet)
2. Improve your emotional health (be around people that you love and trust)
3. Improve you spiritual health (always expressing gratitude)
4. Capture your brilliance (write down ten ideas every day)
5. Give without expectation (give your ideas away)

This TED Talk sums it up in 10 minutes, but let’s highlight the first principle that that James emphasizes.

Improve your physical health

“From that internal health the rest will come, whether it’s business, art, health success”

Before we want to succeed at anything (which is defined entirely by you), the very first thing that we must get together is ourself. The quickest and easiest way to see results is through exercise and diet. Beyond the many physiological changes that occur, exercise not only guides us toward a healthier and happier lifestyle but also one where we are more driven and optimistic. Doing this one thing for yourself, in return improves your sense of livelihood and influences those around you as well.

The book defines this in very basic terms – exercise, eat healthy foods, drink lots of water, and get plenty of sleep.

As for the second principle – surround yourself with awesome people…we make that one easy too

“There’s no one path. There’s every path. Every path stars with this bold moment. Did you choose yourself for this moment? Can you be bold?”

What is part of your daily practice to #chooseyourself?

5 Steps to Maintain Daily Energy (without coffee)

5 Steps to Maintain Daily Energy (without coffee)

“We are at our very best, and we are happiest, when we are fully engaged in work we enjoy on the journey toward the goal we’ve established for ourselves. It gives meaning to our time off and comfort to our sleep. It makes everything else in life so wonderful, so worthwhile.” – Earl Nightingale

At the age of 16, if you were told you had 12 months to live – I think you too would be rather motivated to scientifically unwrap how we can derive the most meaningful life. 23 years later, author Tom Rath explored the key elements of energizing our work through deep research, interviews, and stories from leading scientists in his book Fully Charged.

His research conclusion: “The odds of being completely engaged in your job increase by more than 250% if you spend a lot time doing meaningful work throughout the day”

Harvard Business School’s conclusion:  “After 12,000 diary entries, 64,000 workday events and 238 workers across 7 companies” – “of all the events that engage people at work, the single most important – by far- is simply making progress in meaningful work”

Here are the top 5 ways to be Fully Charged according to Rath and health research:

1. “Every day you let something keep you from following a dream, you lose an opportunity to create meaning” – Interests + Strengths = Meaning

A 2013 study of over 12,000 workers around the world found that those who derived meaning from their work were three times more likely to stay. Meaning has the highest single impact of any variable, and the strongest source of motivation is meaningful work…particularly doing things that contribute to a collective good. This can be any involvement – your job, your fitness, your family – any activity you engage in should be more than a note on your ‘to-do list’ but a have purpose.

2.  “If you want to make a difference – not just today, but for many years to come – you need to put your health and energy ahead of all else” – Eat/Move/Sleep

Personal well-being is as important as your work engagement. If you are neglecting to fuel your body with nutritious foods, lacking exercise, and are burning yourself out from work – how do you expect to have a meaningful contribution to the lives of others? Good news is that this doesn’t have to be some grand, difficult plan. Make one step in the right direction toward either your sleep, eating, or exercise and it will lead you to an upward spiral in the other two areas. These small lifestyle choices influence each other every day.

3. “People who have very high energy levels in a given day are more than 3x more likely to be completely engaged in their work that same day” – Work with purpose! 45+15!

“There is a great deal of support for the general notion of workingin intense bursts paid with a period of time to recharge”. The top 10% treat the period of working time like a sprint – a highly focused burst of ∼45 minutes –  making the most of the working time with intense purpose. This if followed by a ∼15 break to rest up, walk around, move, and have the freedom from structured work to renew. This schedule followed in the Finland education system has been found to not only be effective in school but also in business.  Rath suggest adjusting up/down from there to determine what ratio allows you to remain fully charged.

4. “Small wins generate meaningful progress” – Small wins everyday

“Chipping away at a dream in small steps is deeply motivating” and “even in the worst situations, you can find opportunities for growth”. Seek out the small things that engage you to make daily forward progress.

5. “The actions you take throughout every single day accumulate to shape your years, decades and overall life. However, when you think about a typical day, it’s easy to take these moments for granted” – Choose Positivity 

Rath’s research found that people who reported having great interactions through the day were nearly FOUR times as likely to have a very high well-being. No doubt, life throws curve balls which we can’t control…but we can always control our next interaction and choose to put a positive spin to that conversation.

What are your strongest internal motivators? What are those reminders that give meaning to why you do what you do?

The One Question You Should Be Asking for Body Transformation

The One Question You Should Be Asking for Body Transformation

“A problem is a chance for you to do your best.” – Duke Ellington

Combine the innovator in Edison with the improver in Twain and you have yourself the key to problem solving.

Problem solving sounds a lot like the grade school math challenges we never want to look at again, or the tedious, mind-consuming solutions to our car-pool dilemma. If you think about it though…everything in our day-to-day lives require problem solving – cooking breakfast, getting to work, who’s going to pick the kids up from soccer practice, how we find time to fit in a work out. Sometimes it’s even automatic how we solve them – it’s time we look at this differently.

Why are we neglecting these simple, yet vastly available opportunities throughout our day to improve our lives?

I like to think of optimizing the potential of the human body, ourselves, and our lives as I would a business or job. The problem solving strategies used to optimize companies and design products can easily be applied inward to our health and wellness, behaviors, and daily life – just ask some of the top researchers from Stanford and Fortune 500 companies.

All it takes is one question.

But are you asking that right question? Chances are you aren’t…many of us aren’t.

What have you always wanted to solve but never quite have? Weight loss? Completing a marathon? Starting a business?

Last week we talked about trying new things in order to improve – we need to expand our approach to see the many solutions.  Too often we approach looking for the solution – which isn’t the answer. We set goals and benchmarks, only to sell ourselves short of our potential. We think “if I lose weight I will be happy” or “if I’m faster than I will like my sport more”. We go out pursuing weight loss because then we will be happier, or we go to practice dreading it but thinking that eventually it will be better.

Whatever it may be, it can seem like there are insurmountable obstacles standing between us and our goals. The truth is…these goals are completely achievable…and in most cases, YOU are the only one holding yourself back.

So you wanna know what we’re doing? 

A community body transformational fitness journey.

30 days. Sustainable results. Helping you figure out how to achieve your goals. Guaranteed success… and some bonus prizes at the end wouldn’t hurt right?

We are changing the question and the answer to body transformation.

March – body transformation.

We are digging deep to find the real answers, the science, the motives, and how to personalize it to YOU…with a killer community to be with you every step of the way, doctors to analyze, cater, and support you, and some of the Valley’s top personal trainers.

We are taught to believe there are ‘traditional’ ways we need to improve our health – going on a walk, lifting weights, eating salad – it’s much cooler than that…and more enjoyable.

“Life is not a problem to be solved, but a reality to be experienced.” – Soren Kierkegaard

I challenge you to think outside the box, explore, laugh and enjoy the process – the journey is meant to be lived, not taught. See how this Stanford professor figured out the best way to lose weight and how we want to support that journey for you through our March Mania Transformation Challenge.

To learn more on how we are using design thinking to help create healthful habits, how problem solving will help you lose weight or reach any of your goals, what March Mania is all about, and get more motivation – stay tuned next week!

Ready to go? Sign up for the Transformation Challenge at COR.

What chance are you taking advantage of this week to do your best?

Invent Your Astounding Capabilities

Invent Your Astounding Capabilities

“If we did all the things we are capable of, we would literally astound ourselves.” –Thomas Edison

The possible (and likely) reality that you and I are settling for less than our greatest abilities, I find to be one of the most disappointing yet deeply motivating truths.

It’s easy coming from the greatest inventor of all time, right? However, over 1000 patented inventions didn’t come easy – the start is simply allowing ourselves to do the things we are capable of, despite what we think we cannot. 

Limits are life’s greatest lie.

We are unique in our possession of the power to persevere despite facing adversity, to make directional adjustments throughout the journey, and tap into our inherent creativity to accomplish our goals no matter the feat…then accomplishing more… after accomplishing more, and doing it again.

The next ingenious, life-altering, technological advancement very well could be between your ears. For the rest of us that aren’t quite there yet – it doesn’t mean you can’t or won’t make an impact.

Fulfilling our capabilities comes in many forms. 

For me, my body is my invention – constantly engaged in enriching my every experience. It’s an art enjoyed and found through the endless possibilities that can be developed through exercise, sport and technical precision, optimal nutrition, discovering ideal sleep patterns, mastering and understanding the most influential habits, and practicing the art mentality.

Inventions, art, and innovation – it can lie on a canvas, machinery, or in yourself. Maybe it’s your time to try a triathlon, to go forth with that crazy business idea, sign up for a race, learn how to swim, experiment with a new recipe.

Test the boundaries. Push the limits. Invent history.

The possibilities of what you can do and achieve are undoubtedly endless.

Edison’s quote is a reminder that within each of us is the power and ability to reach remarkable goals. Here’s the real question – how do we “know what we are capable of”? 

Settling for anything less is only robbing you of opportunities. What are you doing this week to astound yourself? 

Edison has too much motivation to stop here. Edison’s quotes through his innovative quest can as easily be said to how we improve our health. It all starts with asking the right question – but what is that? Next Monday’s motivation will tell you!

Enjoy 

Good vs Better – New Year Fitness Goal Setting

Good vs Better – New Year Fitness Goal Setting

“You have brains in your head

You have feet in your shoes

You can steer yourself any direction you choose

You’re on your own.

And you know what you know.

And YOU are the guy who’ll decide where to go.” –Dr. Seuss

We all approach our fitness goals from one of two mindsets. Dr. Heidi Grant Halvorson’s  comparison between the “Be Good Goal” mind-set and “Be Better Version” mind-set couldn’t explain it more perfectly.

The Be Good mind-set is all about focusing on proving our ability while the Get Better mind-set focuses on developing the ability and learning new skills. It’s the difference between wanting to show you are fast, smart, (insert goal here) versus wanting to actually get faster, smarter, etc.

The Be Good mind-set is constantly comparing ourselves to others, and a belief that our skills [do you believe in yourself] are fixed and talents are unchanging – this leaves us vulnerable, doubtful and anxious….major performance killers.

A Get Better mind-set fosters self-comparison, a focus on progress, and developing abilities. Thinking in terms of learning and improving, while accepting that we may make mistakes along the way, maintains motivation and persistence despite setbacks that might occur. Not only that, but we find work to be more interesting, enjoyable; we procrastinate less and plan better; we feel more creative and innovative…AND experience less depression and anxiety.

As many hit the ground running (…literally!) with 2016 fitness goals and ambitions, transform from a “being good” to “getting better” mind-set – throwing in language like “improve, learn, progress, develop, and grow” allows us to think in terms of progress rather than perfection. It’s easy to set forth on our new goals traveling with a Be Good mind-set – comparing our progress to others, and basing our standards, choices, and activities off our surroundings.

When it comes to new habits and goals, particularly in the realm of health, it’s key to individually personalize our experiences, routines and decisions in order to sustain and develop lifestyle changes. Learning what works best for you while staying actively involved in the process sets you up to travel your best path and achieve your most enjoyable experience!

“Change really is always possible – there is no ability that can’t be developed with effort” – Dr. Heidi Grant Halvorson

What’s your Get Better fitness goal for 2016? How do you plan to travel your own path?

5 Steps to Apply Design Thinking to Improving Health

5 Steps to Apply Design Thinking to Improving Health

“The experience of taking control of your life will change your reality, making it possible to achieve almost anything you seriously want to do.” Dr. Roth, The Achievement Habit

As we prepare to launch our March Mania Challenge, we are going to fill you in on the process on how we are determining the most effective health transformation.

What is it that most people want anyways? To lose weight, right?

Well…

We realize it’s not getting people to lose weight – it’s about getting them to want to work out, to enjoy it, make it accessible, build a community, and give them the power to be in control of their health and life.

People loved being a part of the COR community, the kids even join in on the fun (psst!…we are already planning the fun for KADP this summer!), all while pushing everyone to new heights.

“By changing the question, I have altered my point of view and dramatically expanded the number of possible solutions.” – Dr. Roth

The question changed –

• “How might we get people to lose weight?”
• “How might we prove working out is fun and establishes a healthy lifestyle?”
• “How might we demonstrate the impact COR has on encouraging families to be a part of this healthy community?”

…by better understanding our clients.

Design Thinking is term coined by Roth and other Stanford engineers (typically used to improve on a specific product or experience, like a lightbulb or online dating). In “The Achievement Habit“, Roth explains how the same process can be applied inward, helping individuals become happier and more successful.

There’s innovation in the way we approach technology (think that hip watch you’re sporting on your wrist, or the new heart rate monitor) – we got that covered for you here – but there’s also innovation in how we approach our health. The latest gadgets are great and serve as fun motivators…but mastering yourself is all the rage as well – and free.

Nothin’ is more stylish than that.

When Dr. Roth, had first-hand experience applying design thinking to his weight-loss, he discovered that everyone can form the kind of lifelong habits that solve problems, achieve goals and help make our lives better. All it took was “changing the question“. By simply altering his point of view, the number of possibilities dramatically expanded.

So what’s that #1 question we talked about last week –

#1: “What would it do for me if I solved this problem?”

How do we ask the right question to make these next-level changes that step up the game, technology or potential of anything?

Step #1: “Empathize” — learn what the real issues are that need to be solved.

• Understand yourself and define the issue
  •  ex: Diet: Is the junk food the problem or the REASON you are eating the junk food the problem(aka lack of sleep, stress, cravings, triggers, etc.)? Too often we focus on fixing our diet, but what not on fixing the root of our behaviors. Sometimes it takes a nutritional analysis to understand these mechanisms.
  • ex: Exercise: In terms of weight loss – What would it really do for you?  Is it to live longer? Look better and be accepted by others?  Is it to build strength to improve performance? Longevity? Functionality?

Step #2: “Define the problem” — a surprisingly tough task.

• Become empathetic toward yourself during the journey as well as reframing the world and our perspectives

“Design thinking on the highest level is a way of reframing the way you look at the world and deal with issues, and the main thing is this idea of empathy.”

“If you have tried something and it hasn’t worked, then you’re working on the wrong problem.”

Step #3:  “Ideate” — brainstorm, generate possible solution, come up with ideas.

Step #4: “Build” – Create a plan, map out your goals, work with a coach, talk with others.

Step #5: “Test” – The final step is to test the idea and get feedback…when it comes to you, this means testing it on yourself – go try it! Is it working? Was it enjoyable?

Why does this work so well? Because it’s focused around you! Not your friend, not your co-worker, and not the bodybuilder on the bench over…but YOU!

There is both a growing need and opportunity to build collaboration between health and design to address the critical public health issues of our time. Applying human-centered design to address complex health problems (obesity, disease, etc.) creates environments and experiences that make healthy behaviors not only simple, but easy, enjoyable, and economical.

1. Ask the right question
2. Do what we’ve never done before
3. Discover our capabilities

10 Motivation Quotes from Thomas Edison Everyone Should Know!

10 Motivation Quotes from Thomas Edison Everyone Should Know!

10. Exercise

“The mind of a child is naturally active, it develops through exercise. Give a child plenty of exercise, for body and brain.”

 – Why should that change? You don’t need me to tell you the countless benefits some movement has on the body – besides noticing the #gains – we are constantly informed of the improvements…not only through the preaching of our fit friends and trainers but we feel them. A huge benefit commonly overlooked, but emerging noticeably more in recent research, is the effect exercise has on the brain.

“The trouble with our way of educating is that it does not give elasticity to the mind. It casts the brain into a mold.”

– Exercise …you heard it here first. Edison approves…and see how COR is challenging this through our March Mania Challenge.

9. Hard Work

“Being busy does not always mean real work. The object of all work is production or accomplishment and to either of these ends there must be forethought, system, planning, intelligence, and honest purpose, as well as perspiration. Seeming to do is not doing.”

“We often miss opportunity because it’s dressed in overalls and looks like work.”

– Are you “trying” or are do you really doing your best?

8. Character

“Your worth consists in what you are and not in what you have.”

– Do with what you have and make the best of it!

7. Approach

“Vision without execution is hallucination.”

-Have a game plan and dream big.

6. Sweat

“Genius is one percent inspiration and ninety-nine percent perspiration.” 

– If I can take this to another level – substitute “genius” with anything you aspire… it takes hard work…and there is no substitution for hard work.

5. Activity

“The first requisite for success is the ability to apply your physical and mental energies to one problem incessantly without growing weary.”

  – Is it obvious yet that I’m a fan exercise, yet? It’s the pushing, and challenging and growing of ourselves that I love…and exercise is the medium to do that in a physical manner.  However, can challenge yourself in many ways – through drawing, reading, instruments, etc. – there always exists places to apply yourself.

4. Persistence

“The three great essentials to achieve anything worthwhile are, first, hard work; second, stick-to-itiveness; third, common sense.”

– “STICK TO IT-TIVENESS” – that’s my favorite.

3. Giving up

“Our greatest weakness lies in giving up. The most certain way to succeed is to try just one more time.”

– Think of all those times you succeeded – imagine if you quit right before? You would have never know all that you were capable of achieving. The next time you want to give up, think of how close you could be.

2. Positive in the Negative

“Negative results are just what I want. They’re just as valuable to me as positive results. I can never find the thing that does the job best until I find the ones that don’t.”

– There is just as much value in our failures as our successes…which leads us to the last gem…

1. FAILURE

“Show me a thoroughly satisfied man and I will show you a failure.” – The value is in the process. Satisfaction doesn’t lie in the results.”

– Failure is Edison’s #1 area of expertise. How we choose to deal with the inevitable failures that happen along the way make or break our path to success.

Professional athlete, CEO, inventor alike – the ones who succeed rely on their mind and skills to make the special happen!

Be More Effective, Enjoyable, Productive, & Profitable in 2016

Be More Effective, Enjoyable, Productive, & Profitable in 2016

“If you always do what you’ve always done, you’ll always get what you’ve always got” – Mark Twain

Do the same things, you can expect the same results.

You’ve probably heard Einstein’s expression – “Insanity = Doing the same thing over and over again, and expecting different results.”
Since it came from a smart person…that makes it true, right?

Continual action sounds more like persistence, but in the context of improvement it’s simply ineffective.

Whether it be athletic performance, personal improvement, business, or life – I’ve yet to meet someone satisfied with the status quo.  Every thing wants (and has the potential!) to be better, more effective, more enjoyable, more productive, and more profitable.  Nevertheless, many of us seeking improvement continue doing the same thing we’ve done and just hope for a different result – insanity right?

How is this done in sports? When does improvement stop?

It’s fun to wonder – how long can athletes like swimmers continue to drop time? How much faster can we run a marathon? Eventually we can’t blink and be at the finish line, so when does it stop?

Competitive athletes reach the point at which they are willing to make any sacrifice for that inch of improvement. However, that “anything” is usually restricted by the ‘same-ol’, traditional norms that they’ve been taught.

These are the two hardest times to make improvements –

1. Getting started (my NY resolution folks)
2. Improving after ‘exhausting the limits’ (competitive athletes, professionals)

These two circumstances are also the most optimal for achieving improvements. Why?

They both hold the key to breakthrough: 

Doing what you’ve never done before

What are you doing this week that you’ve never done before? How are you changing things up? Keep it fun, keep improving!

You can experiment for yourself, or finish reading how here.

The discomfort, unfamiliarity, and risk of failure is trumped by the possibilities of success – explaining why we almost always neurotically continue. The journey is easy when you are reaping the benefits and riding the wave of success, but what happens when you are continually knocked down? When discouragement sets in and failure arises. When you invest every ounce and nothing is worthwhile. That time, money, energy put into your passion makes you question if it was a waste.

The balance between persistence and change is hard – but they actually co-exist.

Grow in a different way.

What does that mean?

• Doing the same exercise over and over again until you get injured
• Becoming frustrated and doubtful
• Following what works for everyone else
• Trying something new
• Recognizing the gains
• Trusting in the process and yourself

The most successful start to a new exercise regimen or habit is beginning with something you enjoy. Why do we change this approach to grinding out 30+ hours of training a week?
If we don’t make room for the things that are enjoyable (like this!) – it’s not sustainable. You need to either be 1. Having fun or 2. Improving

Our training model reflecting this relationship -“The fastest swimmers have the most fun”

Grinding out work is exhilarating when you recognize the momentous gains and enjoy the process. That moment when you learn a new skill, laugh with your training partner, make something a little tastier than before, feel better after a workout – it’s essential we pause and recognize the moments that make it all worth while – the tiny joys that are found in the fun, impressionable memories along the way.

As for improvements – we are made to think they are limited to gains in physique, finances, or championship performances. Don’t overlook the improvements found in the mundane but critical – sleep, nutrition, practice, attitude, and beyond.

Meanwhile, there are inner processes occurring:

• Physiologically, if you dig into the science of exercise performance improvements – countless changes are happening. In a 10-year, longitudinal study on a world-record marathon runner, many physiological factors were tested, and many changes occurred. The vast data pointed to the runner’s profound improvement in running economy as the key to her performance improvements. This is impossible to contribute to any single physiological adaptation considering all the changes she was making…but maybe that’s the point – for 10 years she continued changing, stressing and improving different systems more efficiently: more rest, quality over quantity, resistance training, periodization, better nutrition – all values COR emphasizes. There is no single change to credit her success. All we know is that we must mix things up…and there’s a science to doing that most effectively!
  • Approach: If you aren’t satisfied, maybe it’s time to look inward: Are you doing the same ineffective things over and over? Going to the gym and frustrated with the lack of results? Are you waiting for the circumstance to change? Or maybe the people around you?
  • You: If you’re stuck in a pattern that’s not getting you what you want, then it’s time to change the pattern. Which means changing the only part of the situation you have control over – you.

Instead of waiting for the circumstances to change, you must change them yourself. Don’t wait for a better future, create you own.

There is no specific list of tasks to becoming successful. Success isn’t formulaic. It’s personal. Studying a field that educates on the countless factors differentiating each individual human, I’ve learned to appreciate this. It’s not something that overwhelms me with impossibility of a formal answer – instead it provides a palette to pull from and inspiration to design the optimal personal experience catered to an individual.

Why?

We are unique. Not only in our inherent physiology and genetics but throw in our experiences, environment, and lifestyle – you’d think it would be impossible to know how to help others. Instead, you need someone who understands all these factors and YOU. Part of what makes success special is the personality you infuse into why and how you do what you do. Stop looking for the prescribed set of answers. Success is creating your own habits. Personalizing it to YOU.

One Step Closer to Happiness

One Step Closer to Happiness

“Active natures are rarely melancholy. Activity and sadness are incompatible” – Christian Bovee

Anyone who ever said they didn’t feel better after a workout is lying. We weren’t meant to be stagnate individuals and a dose of activity does wonders.

Move your body. Move your mind. Move SOMETHING.

No matter if you’re on the beaches vegging on vacation or stuck indoors with snow and rain – simply don’t forget to move every now and then. Small bouts of movement repeatedly can be as beneficial as a long workout.

Harvard Medical Publications advise us to take advantage of what both physical and mental activities provide. On the physical side it could be anything as simple as getting up and taking a lap around the office. It could also be on the mental side – take a three minute break to do to a crossword puzzle, read a book, volunteer, doodle. The principle of active engagement is not only the top rated identifier in markers of successful aging but it enhances memory, decreases depression and risk of dementia.

No matter if you’re the young athlete or weekend warrior, professional or that newbie just trying to get through one more rep –  this is where gains are made.

Small gains add up over time – persistence and movement is key.

You’re body and brain will thank you later.

A great day is only one step away – literally.

What are you doing this week to get movin? How do you monitor happiness?

Finding Balance and Keep Moving Forward

 

“If you can’t fly then run, if you can’t run then walk, if you can’t walk then crawl, but whatever you do you have to keep moving forward.” – Martin Luther King Jr.

Whatever you do, keep moving forward. 

So maybe this isn’t the traditional message that many associate with Dr. King’s legacy, but it’s a universal teaching made evident through his actions. Dr. King had a way of conveying ideas that left others looking at the world with a new perspective – what better time to share some of his impactful and timeless messages.

While this quotation epitomizes the determined efforts of King, it is very much applicable to our athletic lives.

Dr. King’s role as a civil rights activist ignited a powerful movement and left influential change, however his life and work symbolize a quest that rests at the heart of us all –  refusing to be satisfied with the suboptimal.

Sometimes we won’t be able to run, but that doesn’t mean we can’t walk. At times we can barely walk, but we can still crawl.

No matter what, there is always a way to make progress.

“Human progress is neither automatic nor inevitable… Every step toward the goal of justice requires sacrifice, suffering, and struggle; the tireless exertions and passionate concern of dedicated individuals.”

Whether it be our social conditions or athletic performance – it is human nature to dream bigger and better. It’s this enthusiasm that ignites change.

But how often do we act on that? 

It’s not enough to dream. We all can dream. We must find a way to take the next step toward change.

“Change does not roll in on the wheels of inevitability, but comes through continuous struggle”

This message is two-part. 

Just as important through the process of change, is the balance between strength and persistence to move forward with compassion and understanding to modify. 

It’s not the continuous, violent pounding to our bodies that ignites improvements and progress – it’s the growth through change that follows finding a way no matter the struggle.  It’s no easy feat, but change is the result of determination and persistence. When pursued with enthusiasm, passion and love, it becomes the catalyst for change.

Moving forward means listening to our bodies and choosing to ‘walk’ when we cannot ‘run, yet challenging ourself to make that decision instead of stopping altogether. As we approach any kind of change – whether in ourselves or for social betterment – it’s with this enthusiasm and strong vision that allows us to move forward.

Do you choose to use your enthusiasm for improvement and change to propel you forward? How do you find ways to move forward in the face of struggle?       

The #1 Habit of Effective Athletes

The #1 Habit of Effective Athletes

“The commitments we make to ourselves and to others, and our integrity to those commitments, is the essence and clearest manifestation of our proactivity.” – Stephen Covey, 7 Habits of Highly Effective People

Week 2 of the New Year – How are those 2016 commitments going?

Covey’s 7 Habits are gold. His message is a simple reminder of the core influences occurring behind-the-scenes of our new commitments. How do we decide if we are fulfilling our goals, how do we judge the success of ourselves, and how do we set forth setting new aspirations?

It was at the beginning of high school when I first stumbled upon Stephen’s son’s teen version of this book.  If there is one small takeaway – the foundation for the other six habits – it’s his first message.

Proactivity

Covey’s #1 Habit: Be Proactive Athletes

What does that mean? 

Focusing on what you CAN change.

There’s tons of psychology chatter, sports performance research, and behavior change evidence behind his concept, but here’s it to you straight –

“Just remember that every moment, every situation, provides a new choice. And in doing so, it gives you a perfect opportunity to do things differently to produce more positive results.” 

That’s all.

Simply said – Every moment is a chance to align our goals and actions. We respond pretty well to it too. Proactivity becomes both our approach to our commitments as well as our actions.

We judge our productivity off our sense of integrity – the coherence between our goals and actions…when our values, actions, beliefs, etc. integrate it becomes something that builds upon itself. This explains the exhilarating, momentous, encouraging snowball effect of accomplishment and working towards goals.

Proactive folks focus on the things they can change – in sports, these are your everyday details (finishing out those reps, keeping technique on point when fatigued, etc.).

It’s also how we respond to our environment.

“Response-able” – your ability to choose a response:

#1 way to start – what we say (and sometimes what we don’t say) – whether that be spoken or through out thoughts.

Language: A proactive person uses proactive language. A reactive person uses reactive language.

I can, I will, I prefer, etc. > I can’t, I have to, if only

Taking the initiative to find the solution (ex: How to fit the workout in while traveling – “I can do a body weight tabata circuit in my hotel room”)  > Dwelling on the problem and waiting for someone to fix it for you (“I can’t exercise because the hotel gym is nasty”)

Not all things are within our control, we need to identify those that we can change and focus our efforts on thosecommitments.

“Proactive people focus their efforts on their Circle of Influence. They work on the things they can do something about: health, children, problems at work.”

“Reactive people focus their efforts in the Circle of Concern — things over which they have little or no control: the national debt, terrorism, the weather.”

Gaining an awareness of the areas in which we expend our energy is a huge step in becoming proactive. *where the magic in accomplishing goals happens*

What are doing something about this week? Share it! Are you triggered by a stimulus or do you choose your response?

How do I start off a new beginning/commitment (like a new semester!)? Writing all the things I want to do, how I’m going to commit, and stick to it. Keep that integrity, push forward, and be proactive! 

Everyday Resolutions

Everyday Resolutions

“For what it’s worth: it’s never too late or, in my case, too early to be whoever you want to be.” – F. Scott Fitzgerald

This week welcomes the New Year, the most popular day for making resolutions.

Making goals, striving for improvement, an excuse to be better…that excites me…so what better day to write a long newsletter about new year’s resolutions, how to make them, and how to keep them…right?

Except one thing.

Why do we need an excuse to start something new?

To make a change. To take on a challenge. To improve ourselves. To make a difference.

“There’s no time limit, stop [or start] whenever you want.”

You don’t need a New Year to make a resolution. All you need is today – this Monday. Or really…ANY MOMENT!

I’m all about an excuse to improve myself, try something new and start my day with a purpose. Here’s where it becomes a problem…too people only do this one day a year – January 1st –  but the turning of a number shouldn’t be our catalyst for change.

Too often we simply set a goal based on what we ought to do, what we read in magazines or what we see other people doing and their expectations – workout more, eat better, be nicer, yada-yada-yada.

Where’s the meaning in that? Forget about what you or other people think you ought to be doing, and look at what you really want!  Do you want to feel more rejuvenated, lively, clear? Do you want to be able to move without pain, kick the soccer ball with your children, or take a walk with your wife? Do you hope to build better relationships? Improve your memory?

Resolutions can often lack a foundation of meaning and personal relevance. What we need is something fundamental, central and important that truly carries purpose. This purpose comes from inside, something that’s based on what’s important and what you dream for later.

What kind of person waits all year to act on a decision anyway?  Why wait for that “one day” to make a decision, when there are another 364 equally great resolution-making days available to you?

Here’s a thought: Let’s do it every day.

Let’s not wait for one day a year. Waiting is exhausting and no fun. Start today. You have the courage to change your life in any way that suits you, and not just on January 1. That power and accessibility of change is there every day.

“I hope you live a life you’re proud of. If you find that you’re not, I hope you have the strength to start all over again.”

What goal have you put on the ‘goal wall’ (you can even mail them in!) or been working towards?